Concert #4

When I go to a concert I like to enjoy the music. I like to hear different versions of songs and in a different way than I am used to. I never usually join the Dirty Hazards in dancing and such. In October of 2002 I went with 3 friends, Rob, Bob and Mike, to an Incubus concert. Bob and Mike are brothers and they had never been to a concert before, as far as I am aware. We waited through the boring opening band and I got smacked in the face by a bottle of water thrown by some jerk across the arena. This distracting and annoying action would set the tone for the rest of the night.

When Incubus finally came out people got excited and started rushing closer to the stage. Mike got squeezed into the crowd and began to get carried away. He turned around and he had the most frightened look I have ever seen on anyone’s face. He looked as though he was being dragged into a fiery pit from whence he would never return. Bob grabbed his hand and pulled him back to where he was before he was washed away in the river of humanity. Mike fought for his ground for a good portion of the rest of the night.

When a concert starts, I always like to know where the Health Hazards are moshing at, so that I can not get trapped in their swirling circle of sweaty annoyance. I looked across the crowd and saw that the melee of loadies was in up in front, next to the left part of the stage. I felt some relief that I might actually get to enjoy the music, free from distraction. This freedom only lasted for about a song and a half. The mosh pit migrated over to right in front of my friends and I. For some strange reason people slamming into each other and running in circles always seem to decide to carry on their activities right by me. I like to think that it is because I am a very large guy and I stop the herd from progressing with my brute strength and you would do well to think the same thing.

So, now my friends and I are being constantly bumped into and sweated on by the swarm of stoners. Amidst all the turmoil I am glad to know that some people near us had made a peace pact and were solidifying the agreement with the peace pipe. It smelled like someone had released a skunk in there and the Health Hazards sweat romp was only adding to the stench of peyote. My friends and I didn’t take long to become extremely annoyed with having sweat rubbed on us. When people would run near us we would shove them into other people in the circle. I myself threw several people down to the concrete and we all soon began to enjoy shoving other people around. Rob and myself would take turns running through the circle and running against the flow, knocking people down and giving them the forearm shiver. Anyone who knows Rob would be surprised that he was knocking people down as he has never been given to much physical activity, but I was a witness and he was really into it.

After we stopped running through the crowd wreaking havoc and returned to our spots by Bob and Mike we just did some old fashioned shoving. After a couple of minutes doing this I noticed that my shirt had gotten very tight. I turned around to find that there was a line of girls behind me who were trying not to get run over and had found sanctuary behind the big guy who wasn’t moving. One of them was holding my shirt so that I wouldn’t move from in front of her. I wish that I had a camera because the girls all looked like refugees from a foreign war or disaster seeking refuge. I turned back around and focused on shoving people again.

A couple of songs later I saw a guy heading straight for me from the circle. He was the first guy that seemed to notice that we were there and were shoving people like crazy. He came right towards me and I gave him a good solid shove. He bounced right back toward me and I shoved him back to the center of the circle. On his third attempt I decided to put him on the floor. He came back again and this time I just grabbed him by the collar and yelled in his face, “WHAT??” He said, “Dude, dude. I am just trying to get out.” I still don’t understand why he felt that the only way out was by running towards me.

A few songs later a girl came up to me and recruited me and the boyfriend of one of the refugee girls behind me to throw her onto a group of people who she assumed would catch her. I asked her if she was sure that she wanted to and she said, “Oh yeah, just do it man.” So we each took a foot and we hurled her high in the air. This girl must not have understood that you need to lay flat for people to catch and carry you. She instead did a dive that would have given her a very high score in the Olympics and she went straight down to the floor. I think I even felt the floor shake a little when she hit. I am not sure where she went after that but I hope it was to a medical station.

At the end of the night I realized that I hadn’t actually paid any attention to the music and would have been just as well off to crank up the sound on my stereo at home and bump into my friends for a couple of hours. I did have fun though.


Golden Corral Greatest Hits

I have a strange relationship with Golden Corral. Strange, because I don’t really like the food but I do love going there. My world is always filled with people who have worked at Golden Corral. And I just have a great deal of odd memories dealing with GC. There are many things to remember and rules and guidelines to follow when deciding to dine at Golden Corral and I will share them with you.

All You Can Eat

One fine summer day, a couple of my friends and I decided that we wanted to actually go and eat “All You Can Eat” at a Golden Corral Buffet. We came in and decided to take it nice and slow. The first couple of hours went by fairly smoothly. Actually the whole day wasn’t too bad at all. We sat and talked about dumb stuff all day while going back for more “Technically Pizza” and “Aged Macaroni And Cheese”. We went through 3 shifts of servers, countless drink refills and probably 30 plates of food each. We did it just to be able to say that we had done it. As if the all day Corral-a-thon wasn’t enough value, there is a sweet trick to getting a steak dinner. If you are not staying for breakfast, lunch and dinner, then go at 3:40 in the afternoon. As you may have guessed, the steak is cooked starting at 4:00. You get the dinner food at the lunchtime prices.

You Are Never Alone In the Bathroom at Golden Corral

I was in a Golden Corral one day when I suddenly had to drop a deuce. As I got up to go, my friend told me, “You are never alone in the bathroom at Golden Corral.” I laughed at that and continued on my way. When I got in there, I saw a man washing his hands and thought, “Well I am not alone now, but he will leave soon.” I went into the stall and waited for the man to go as I felt it was going to be a noisy one, if you know what I am saying. He headed for the door and I thought I would soon be alone. As the door squeaked while closing, it suddenly stopped and made the opposite sound. “Wow, I am still not alone. Someone else is in here. That’s funny.” Then the door squeaked while 3 more people came in. I thought maybe the S.W.A.T. team was coming in to get me. I thought about waiting out the storm, when a couple more people came in. One of them went to the stall next to mine. He got comfy and then I heard one of the strangest things I have ever heard in my life. The man was relieving his extremely loud intestinal pressure while at the same time saying, “OoooooooaaaaaaaoooouuuuuuHHHhhhh”. I almost busted out laughing and would have if I hadn’t been so frightened by the fact that the plumbing was rattling. It felt like he was going on for a solid minute so I went ahead and and through my snap-pop firework under the cover of his daisy cutter bomb. You are never alone in the bathroom at Golden Corral. If you think you are, you can rest assured that there is a camera or a U.S. Senator hidden in there with you.

The Food Always Changes

Sometimes the macaroni and cheese actually tastes like macaroni with cheese. One time I even had some respectable “Technically Pizza”. The taste of the food can change drastically with each batch that is cooked. This is part of the magic and allure of Golden Corral. If you tried some mashed potatoes earlier and they tasted like pre-chewed french fries you may be surprised at the next batch that comes out. Tastes also change from location to location. If I have a burger from McDonalds in Florida and one in Seattle, they will both be equally nauseating, but at Golden Corral all past experiences must be thrown out and new levels of nausea can be reached.

Play With Your Food

Because the food is so unpredictable, you don’t have to feel guilty about starting a food fight with a bad round of side dishes. One of my friends let my brother and I in on a little magic trick that makes it appear that you are bouncing a dinner roll off of the floor and high into the air. One day while dining at the aforementioned establishment, we all took brownies from a tray that had apparently been baked using rubber cement. As I commented about the bouncy texture of the brownies, my brother began to do the bouncing trick. He did it a couple of times just for the amusement of those of us who were at our table. As he did it, I noticed that my brother now had the attention of the children at all the tables around us. I told him to keep it up. He began to really get some air up under those brownies and with a few more good throws, everyone in that section of Golden Corral was watching him bounce brownies and several people were laughing at the spectacle. Now how about that? Dinner and a show.


Company Policy #2

Another story from my first job:

Another company policy was demonstrated with a sign on the wall. John had made the sign himself and placed it by the listening station. It said, “Here at CD Warehouse, if we catch you stealing, we will not prosecute to the full extent of the law. We will just beat the (tar) out of you.” I almost had to exercise that policy a couple of times.

The incident that stands out in my mind regarding the theft policy happened one evening as I was tending the store by myself. I was just waiting for the clock to strike nine, so that I could close and go home. It was about ten till when a guy walks in. He had a big leather jacket and jewelry on his face. You know the type; they have to dress really tough because they are just so cool. So this “cool guy” is the only person in the store and he starts perusing through the music. I have nothing to do so I just watched him. He would pick up a CD then pull it out of the case then put it back in, just to get me accustomed to his method of shopping. With just five minutes left I started giving him the evil eye hoping he would leave, by this time he had employed the old shoplifter’s tactic of not looking at me. If he can’t see me I can’t see him, right.

He pulled a CD out of the “M” section and in my mind I started thinking of what he might try to steal from that section. As I thought on that, my gaze drifted away for just a second and I looked back down to see him pull his hand out of his pocket while replacing a CD case with his other hand. I thought, “What could he be stealing? Is it Metallica, or Metal Church? Maybe it’s Mad Season.” That is if he was stealing at all. This kid had guts and he was pretty quick. He moved over to the “A” section and I thought, “Anthrax, Aerosmith or maybe Alice in Chains” At this point his back was turned to me so as to more easily hide any conspicuous activity.

At one minute to nine he turned for the door with a disappointed look, like we didn’t have what he wanted. As he got closer to the door I came out from behind the counter and headed for the door as well. He had reached the door and I was a few feet from him. He was going to turn out the door when he gave me the guiltiest look I’ve ever seen in my life. So I said, “Hey, ah, just go ahead and put those CD’s back.” But he didn’t. He acted like he didn’t hear me and walked out the door. So I ran out after him. The chase only lasted about five feet. I grabbed his jacket and was about to pull his wallet out by the chain he had on it, when he just quit. He almost went totally limp. I said, “Let’s see ‘em.” He handed me two CD’s and I just let go of him. I told him to never come back again. He was placed on our banned list.

As I was walking back inside I looked at the CD’s to find out what he had taken. Suddenly this wayward metal fan turned into a material girl. That’s right, he was stealing “Madonna” and “Paula Abdul”. I was baffled. Maybe he had a girlfriend that liked that stuff. I later found out that he did get away with one other CD or at least we found that we were missing the disc from a case when we were organizing CD’s later. To this day I am still troubled by the thought process of that individual. I closed up the store and went home, putting an end to that disturbing night.


Company Policy #1

CD Warehouse stuff continued:

One day a man in cowboy boots and a hat was in the store. The whole time he was in the store he had a huge wad of tobacco in his lip. As he exited he reached in his mouth and dropped his tobacco in the entrance to the store. About three seconds later John saw the pile in the doorway and yelled out, but he was too late the man was already getting in his truck. So John ran out to the aisle and over to the “B” section of CD’s and pulled one of them out. By this time the truck had pulled out and started to drive away. John ran out the front door, jumping over the pile of chew, and threw the weapon he had so carefully chosen, at the truck. As the disc and case hurled through the air then crashed and exploded, John proceeded to tell the man what he thought of him. When John came back inside he said, “Stupid jerk.” He went back behind the counter and I asked him, “Why did you run out to the ‘B’ section to find a CD to throw?” He said, “I didn’t want to throw something good, and the first crappy artist that came to mind was Michael Bolton.” After that, John kept a collection of music at the register, mostly comprised of musicians like “Winger” or “Vanilla Ice”.


A Special Kind of Ugly

I will continue with my focus on my old CD Warehouse job by telling the following story:

One afternoon, a man walked through the door, accompanied by two women. They went back and talked to my boss John. After a while they all came over to the front of the store where my friend and I were. The man and John seemed to be old friends. They talked about a wide range of things. Then John introduced us to the man. He said, “Hey guys, this is Rip and he works at the (local gentleman’s club). These girls work over there too.” John then walked over to the back wall with the man and one of the girls. The other girl stayed by my friend and myself to chat. She invited us to the club and tried to give us free passes to get in.

This episode cemented my decision to not ever go to any strip clubs. Those girls were so revolting that it drove any slight desire, which may have ever existed inside of me, away. They had high, thin, permed hair and all kinds of crazy makeup of varying colors in strange places on their faces. One of them had some seriously jacked-up teeth and the other one had no eye brows and had to paint some on. I imagined the horrible circus that would be watching those girls dance around and instantly tried to put my mind on less nauseating things. Questions soon arose in my mind. “Why would anyone want to watch anything like that? How are they still in business? Maybe they keep the lights really, really extremely low. Or maybe they have some seats and a stage about 50 yards away.” I submit that any young man whose first exposure to strippers was like mine, would not want to ever attend the strip bars. Needless to say, we rejected her free admission offer.


Mistreating Enrique Fans

When I was in high school I worked at a CD Warehouse with a friend of mine. Our boss was a man named John and he worked out a deal for CD Warehouse to sell concert tickets. The first concert we were to sell tickets for was Enrique Iglesias. This was back when Enrique was only popular amongst Hispanic people.

The first day that we had Enrique tickets was insane. Not since the Alamo, have so few Texans been surrounded by so many Mexicans. We started answering the phone, “Thanks for calling Enrique Warehouse.” The tickets were moving like hotcakes and the phone kept ringing with people who had questions about Enrique. Finally, on one call John picked up the phone and said, “Oh yeah, actually, Enrique is here right now, but only for the next five minutes. You better hurry.” My friend and I just started laughing. We laughed even harder when about four minutes later we got another rush of customers. We were inspired by John’s trick. After that day, when someone would sporadically come in for tickets, we would tell them that Enrique had placed a very special CD display on our counter for his new album, himself. They would get all giddy as they found out that Enrique had touched those very CD’s. They sold at the speed of light. We even had an autographed copy of Enrique’s newest album that was too valuable to John for him to sell it (It was John’s signature).

So, when I am denied entry at the pearly gates everyone will know why.


Best Name Ever

A couple of years back I went to my brothers high school graduation.  I was going to just catch the early part of the alphabet and go home after seeing my brother graduate.  My plan was interrupted when I perused the program and saw the most wonderful name I have ever beheld.  It was located in the “L” section.  I thought to myself, “There is no way that this is real.  No one would do something this cool.”  As we got closer to the “L’s”, I grew ever more excited.  And then, it happened.  That’s right, I watched as “First Middle Last” received a high school diploma.  I count myself lucky to have been a witness to such a fine moment in name history.